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Has Father's Day grief become a marketing tool?

Charlotte Andrews
BBC News, Southampton
Charlotte Andrews Richard, a dad with short white hair, is holding his daughter, Charlotte a five-year-old child who has medium-length brown hair and is hugging him. Charlotte is wearing a plain white shirt and has silver tinsel wrapped around her head and sleeves - a school nativity costume. The background shows a wall with hanging decorations, including garlands. There are dark-colored curtains covering windows. The lighting in the room is warm and yellowish. The image was taken indoors about 25 years ago.Charlotte Andrews
Richard, my dad, ed away five years ago

In recent years, some companies have started offering the option to opt out of emails related to sensitive occasions like Father's Day. But for those grieving, the flood of opt-out messages can feel just as intrusive, raising the question - is this genuine empathy or just clever marketing?

I ed the "Dead Dad Club" in 2020, when I lost my father to vascular dementia. The first few years were hard.

So when UK florist Bloom & Wild became the first brand to offer an option to stop emails about big calendar dates like Mother's Day and Father's Day, it felt like a rare moment of genuine sensitivity.

At first, messages like "Prefer not to get our Father's Day emails":[]}